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Regrets? I’ve Had a Few

Posted on: January 23, 2012

 In high school, instead of following my theatrical and musical interests, I followed boys. To be more specific, it was two boys: Bill and John. I attached myself to first one and then the other, and boy, I never looked back. Until now.

 When given the opportunity to write a guest blog about high school regrets at, I knew immediately I had to write about the missed opportunity to become the next Pat Benatar. That’s what my fellow classmates, the Bannockburn School graduating class of 1981, predicted for me in eighth grade anyway. And, given that I had snagged the lead in our school musical that year and was subsequently asked to be the lead singer in a local band, it may not have been completely unfounded. Though, if I am honest with myself, I never could quite belt out the high notes like my favorite female musical icon, so that prediction was most likely not going to happen. However, that hasn’t stopped me from singing “Hit Me with Your Best Shot” at every karaoke bar I have encountered between 1988 and now.

Even if I wasn’t going to be the next female rock star, I could have at least had fun being a part of my high school musicals or show choir. But, for some ridiculous reason I did not audition for one play or chorus my entire four years of high school! Oh, how I wish I had had High School Musical or Glee to inspire me back then. The musical renderings of Gabriella or Rachel might have pulled me out of my hormone induced stupor. Or, at the very least I might have realized that you could get hot boys like Zac Effron to pay attention to you if you could carry a tune. Unfortunately, though, during my time, people like me were known as theater geeks and being a geek back then didn’t carry with it the cool factor that it does today.


So, what does a person do when she realizes she totally missed out on many wonderful high school experiences? If I were Marty McFly from Back to the Future, I would simply hop in my DeLorean, punch in 1985 and totally rock the Deerfield High School audition for The Pirates of Penzance. Since I can’t do that, I do what all good parents do: Nag their children not to make the same mistakes they made.



Beyond that, my books tend to have underlying themes related to the importance of pursuing your dreams and being open to new possibilities. For example, in my young adult e-Book, Pure Enough, when Katherine, the protagonist, transfers to a new high school, she has the ability to reinvent herself, but instead, she hesitates, afraid to try anything outside of her comfort zone. Her love interest, Aidan, is a hot theater geek (why didn’t I find one of those when I was in high school?) and persuades her to audition for the school play. Katherine makes the play, and as a result, learns a lot about who she is in the process.

 But, back to my future…as it turns out, I don’t need a DeLorean to alter my past mistakes. Twenty-five years after graduating, I landed a walk-on role in my alma mater’s high school musical. All it took was outbidding another frustrated theater geek at a local fundraiser. For seventy-five dollars, I have secured the opportunity to walk across the high school stage in front of an audience. Even if the director doesn’t give me a single line to speak, I won’t care. I am thrilled that the curtain has not closed on my high school theatrical debut. Sometimes life gives you a do-over, and when it comes, you better seize it.  I don’t think I could have written a better ending myself.

 Now it’s your turn…If you could pay $75 to experience something you missed in high school, what would it be?



4 Responses to "Regrets? I’ve Had a Few"

I fear my regrets are not things that I could pay someone to do. I just regret that I was a bit of a slacker and wasn’t passionate about much of anything. On the other hand, maybe that helped me make me who I am now.

Well, look at you now-a guest on Dr. Oz!!!!

I would learn how to play the piano. Always wanted to learn and never did.,
When I was a child all my cousins played the accordion ( it was a big thing back in the sixties). My mom wanted me to follow in my cousins footsteps and take accordion lessions. I said no. It was too big for me and I didnot like the accordion anyway. She said piano lessions were to expensive , we couldnt afford a piano and in my parents mind back then , it was hard making a living playing the piano. But all I wanted to do was to experience the enjoyment of playing music especially Elvis songs. So I never got the chance and I did not take the initiative as an adult to do so. But everytime I see someone on the piano or see a home with one , I think back on my childhood and wished I would have found a way.

It’s never too late, Feni!

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